Do you get the pop-up about on your phone about having plugged in a device to your phone? Have you tried a different, seemingly less preferable option?
I remember I had a phone where I had to choose an option that didn’t seem like the right one at all for my PC to see it.
Also, do you have another PC/OS installed? Just to see if you can eliminate variables.
It’s this menu, accessible through the notification. Honestly I just try each of them in order even if they don’t seem to make sense for what I’m trying to do.
I don’t remember which one works, but I know it’s not always what I expected.
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