• ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    People of course do want children

    Do they? I mean, even if first-world people aren’t as well-off as they could theoretically be, they’re still much better off than people in poor counties (or their own ancestors a hundred years ago). But those people in poor countries and those ancestors have/had a lot more children. Meanwhile people in Sweden have fewer children than people in the USA.

    I think that many people in first-world countries do not in fact want children.

    (And within a country, poor people have more children than rich people, so actually making more people poor would increase fertility.)

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      I am not sure if it’s really “I don’t want children” or more “I want a career (too)”. In Sweden 76 % of women are employed versus 57 % of women in USA. There are also more women with higher education in Sweden than in the USA.

      You have to decide whether you want a career or a child. And when a good career is a viable and achievable option, you decide to have a career instead.

      I wanted children, but I wanted to be independent and not poor when I am older, more. I know so many women who are poor and lonely because they did not focus on their jobs. While I am often sad to not have children, I’d never give up my independence and safety cushion just for that biological urge. I know of many women who think the same way.