No bully turtle. You mean.
I agree, if he doesn’t want to tell you leave him alone. As much as people are going to hate me for this you are not entitled to knowing or being told about someone’s gender identity if they don’t want to tell you and prying or demanding to know otherwise or worse semantically trying to determine it using “signs” is incredibly disrespectful.
Just in case, you know, a Witch happens to curse me and transform me into %(another gender)! I’m totally cis I swear!!!
You don’t need to answer that Turtle. The fifth amendment allows you to refuse to testify if you so choose.
This one simple trick will get you out of most bad situations in which you are being egged, it certainly got me out of plenty of really bad ones.
Oh hey it’s me
A pansexual partner is also an option. I am not picky.
The best thing to have is a partner than loves you, if they really love you it shouldn’t be an issue.
