I am in the interview process for a job in a research group and it is going well so far. The only issue is that I was attracted to the person that interviewed me and I am going to be working with if I get hired.
My girlfriend is the most important person in the world for me so I don’t want to risk catching feelings for someone else, but I also need to find a job if I am to rent a place to finally live with her.
What would you do in my case? Would you stop the interview process and try to find a job elsewhere or would you go for it and trust that you would do the right thing?
This question might sound deranged to you, but I have the full autism/ADHD/OCD combo so I am very out of touch with how the average person thinks.
I never said I have cheated or even come close to. I have self control issues in other areas such as binge eating when stressed but that’s it
just keep your feelings to yourself and be professional
Eating vs planning something with someone other than your partner are 2 different levels of impulse control. It takes a bit more work to cheat.