• AItoothbrush@lemmy.zip
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    5 months ago

    Btw if im already here can someone explain why nun/hijab stuff is so attractive to me? Is my brain just fucked or what?

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      5 months ago

      Man: Here I am, my hand on your thigh. You know me barely at all, yet it seems perfectly natural to me to have my hand there. What’s more, it appears to be equally natural to you, being you don’t seem to mind if it remains there.

      Narrator: It was only then that Venabili actually noticed the hand on her bare thigh. Bare skin in public had somehow lost some of its attractiveness, its sexual quality. It appears to be it’s the hiding from view that is crucial. The young man seemed to sense this too…

      Man: Yet if we were to meet in a more formal setting and you were wearing, for instance, a gown would I dare place my hand on the precise spot of your thigh it now occupies?

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      5 months ago

      Kink usually involves the sexualizing of things which aren’t normally sexualized. The act in itself can be a turn on.

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      5 months ago

      You my friend have a desecration kink, closely related, but not necessarily paired with a degradation kink. Easy litmus test in a less religious context - does the fact that you’re doing that to someone’s daughter/son actually kinda turn you on?

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      in addition to a play on selective/strategic nudity, i find flipping the script/fucking the patriarchic hierarchy to be both arousing and fulfilling as well.

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        5 months ago

        I think its the selective nudity. I also love socks, thigh highs, fishnets, etc. Some clothes is more attractive to me than full nudity.