• trufax@beehaw.orgOP
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    1 year ago

    I am the “averse” one- meaning, I have a hard time setting firm boundaries, struggle with gathering the courage to say no, etc. The person in question I’m having to push back against is kind of passive aggressive/manipulative, but seems very confrontational.

    • heartlessevil@lemmy.one
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      1 year ago

      So why are you talking to them? Part of being a good conversationalist is knowing when to drop it.

      I think (I am a shit head on the internet) that this might be telling you something. To reaffirm those boundaries you already know about.

      Talk to them or don’t, but remember what is important to you personally.