for your own sanity, use the damn block button.
don’t engage trolls or provocateurs, block them and move on.
if you’re on here you probably don’t like algorithmic feeds, guess what not having one means? The block button actually fucking does something! so use it to moderate your experience.

  • Zagorath@aussie.zone
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    2 months ago

    My problem with “blocking” on many platforms is that all it does is mean you don’t see their comments. But if they can still see yours and reply to them, you leave yourself at a disadvantage where to outsiders it may seem as though you had no response, and thus they appear to have “won”.

    • (⬤ᴥ⬤)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      2 months ago

      the people who think that “no response” = win aren’t going to engage with what you post regardless, why take the time to respond to someone who categorically will not listen or care?

      if you have a comeback that will leave them shitting and pissing or that you think will cause onlookers to slightly chortle then by all means go ahead, i love a good joke, especially ones directed at cunts, but make sure that it remains just a joke. that you’re not checking your notifications half-hoping that some rando on the other side of the planet left a brand new reply for you to epically pwn.
      speaking from experience it is not a worthwhile use of anyone’s time

    • Successful_Try543@feddit.de
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      2 months ago

      On the platform formerly known as 🐦, there was the option to completely block a user (mutually invisible), not only muting (invisible for me) them, which avoids this problem.

      • Promethiel@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        For some, a temporary lack of self growth; for others, certain mental illnesses. It’s as awful as it sounds if you really sit and imagine. The self awareness needed to rise above some of that? Many will live and die never having reached it.

        The misguided brain can hang itself up on nearly anything, and for many it’s the semblance of validation. There is quantifiable pain behind the need to interact for some people.

  • Janet@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 months ago

    sucks when the block function leaves you with breadcrumbs like “5 comments on this post”, you open the post and BAM! nothing. not a single soul talking about that shit.

    fucking sucks. complained to the devs, they say its too small an issue, too large complexities in fixing it…

    and i have no idea what i did to get blocked by apparently a handful of peeps… shit sucks

    it used to be a fun place…

    sure i could block the people who got engagement from people who had me blocked so i wouldnt have to see those empty discussions… but… like… come on. rly? i rather not visit instead…

    talking about another website. just let me sit here a bit. am sad.

    it used to be fun, like srsly, getting online after school? irc? anybody? it used to be so cool… idfk what happened… but suddenly everyone moved to discord and now i am only left with my best pal, wifey and her sister on discord… like how did i loose connection to so many people idfgi.

    fucking shit now im crying and want to go home

  • grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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    2 months ago

    My experience of movies went way up once I realised I could just leave. It was one of my main concerns about going to the theatre: what if it sucks?