M. 34
I’m a virgin guy and i don’t think that’s going to change. What do you think about people like me? I feel like a failure half of the time. I firmly believe that one of the purposes of human life (and animal too) is to reproduce, keep alive your bloodline, your genes and I’ve failed at that. Sex, even the protected is there not only to produce carnal pleasure but to stimulate the idea of having kids with your partner.
The fact I’ve failed at it makes me feel kinda useless personally. Like i have no purpose to exist. My younger brother already has a 6 year old daughter and about to get married with his fourth gf… so i guess my family bloodline won’t dissappear completely, but still a sad consolation.
Edit: please don’t tell me go get therapy. Please.
So. You don’t need fixed. You’re fine. You’re going through life and you’ll figure out what works for you as you go.
That said, it does kinda seem like you have a misconception about what therapy is. Its not about making you fit in with the rest of the world. Its about helping you accept yourself, appreciate yourself, and love yourself for who you are. I won’t tell you to try it since you so specifically said you didn’t want people saying that, but I hope someone else reading this finds something to connect with on a journey of self love and self acceptance