• Todd Bonzalez@lemm.ee
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        11 days ago

        Let me get this straight:

        If a man removes a condom mid-sex, against his partner’s wishes, and continues to have sex with her until his finishes inside her, you believe the issue here is her “regret” for having sex with a man that would violate her sexual boundaries, and not the fact that a man forced a woman to have sex with him in a way she did not consent to, that could have extraordinary negative consequences for her?

        Fuck off with that sexist victim-blaming bullshit. Consent is fundamental to sex. Sex without consent is rape.

        And don’t argue that consent was withdrawn after-the-fact. Consent was granted on the condition that a condom be worn. The moment you insert your bare cock into her, you’re fucking raping her.

        I’m sorry I have to spell this out for you so graphically, but someone needs to explain consent to you since your parents never evidently never did.

        • Lemming6969@lemmy.world
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          11 days ago

          No, my issue is that adult literacy is like 20%. Once you consent, condom on, you are now in a situation where whatever happens next is virtually impossible to prove, and proof is required to convict. All cases of withdrawn consent leading to an illegal act for any reason have a very high probability of being unable to be prosecuted due to being indistinguishable from a withdrawn consent compliance scenario or a full consent regret scenario, both are legal. The mere fact that initial consent put you into a sexual position means that either party can claim that consent was given at the time which is how you ended up in that situation to begin with… It becomes he said she said, which is a loss.