• littlewonder@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Cis-woman with female bits here. Sounds like I might be an odd one out, but I float between amateur video, digital hentai manga, and Literotica.

    I have to have porn of some sort to orgasm with my hitachi. I can orgasm manually without porn, but it’s not as full-body as the vibe orgasm, so I only do it this way when circumstances require it.

    I Netflix and chill myself maybe 2-3x a week, which is partially because it can take a while, and because other people, who aren’t my partner, need to be in another part of the house because the vibe is not silent.

    So that’s generally how much I use porn. 2-3x a week.

    To answer your question, if you mean the porn to bate session ratio is closer to 1:1, then I might win that over men because I use porn every time I jill off. If you mean a higher frequency of porn sessions, then men will probably win because I only DJ my EP a couple times a week.

    Side note: It seems like a lot of men can orgasm from photos, which is baffling to me. I can’t get to Planet Orgasm from that train. Maybe it’s different types of imagination versus a male v. female thing.

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      3 months ago

      In my experience (which is limited, I don’t often ask friends about their mastubatory habits) most men have about a1:1 porn to masturbation ratio as well.

      It seems like a lot of men can orgasm from photos

      As in without any physical stimulation? I’m pretty sure that’s not very common, but I may be wrong.

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        3 months ago

        Nah, with stimulation. I’m saying I can’t get all the way to an orgasm with just a photo so it amazes me that a lot of dudes can. Maybe my horny imagination is just broken.