I clearly have failed to understand how integral to the social identity of the Lemmy community server crashes have become. The “little guy taking on Reddit and Twitter” for 4 years.

I have personal DB2 and PostgreSQL experience in production “mission critical” applications. I should have seen that for 4 years the developers had all the social experience of social – like Hollywood films or Music Industry labels.

My brain damaged mind was WORRIED about the June 4, 2023 GitHub Issue 2910 so much that I started organizing !lemmyperformance@lemmy.ml on June 13 after lemmy.ml upgraded hardware and I saw more crashes.

It’s cultural. I should not have looked into the kitchen and let my personal DB2 and PostgreSQL memories haunt me that this was “production” system crashing.

I fucked up, and I’ve wasted 2 months in WORRY about the Reddit API deadline the first month, and now the Elon Musk X rename, and I admit - I didn’t get the social experience the developers have for 4 years working “social communities”.

I study religions, I should have interpreted it using that hat instead of “production PostgreSQL or DB2”.

It’s been a bad year for me, and I’ve made several big mistakes. I had to drink to clear my mind for the first time this year since New Years. Those memories of running “mission critical” servers had to be shut off, stop applying them to socially-driven Lemmy culture. The developers have been running this site for 4 years, they know modern audiences and what works - I’ve just been pissing into the wind with the wrong interpretation :(