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    I’ve been fortunate enough to have seen my material conditions improve as I’ve entered my mid-thirties which has let me start a family and buy a home. I’ve also watched my incredibly talented and hard working friends/acquaintances/neighbours be ground into dust under the cruel rule of capitalism. I got lucky, they didn’t, this has radicalized me far more than any naive idealism ever could.

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    It’s a famous example of survivorship bias. The idea is, adding armor to planes make them heavier, so you want to minimize where you put armor. After some flights, you take note of where the bullet holes are in the planes that come back.

    Where do you put more armor? Do you put it where there are the most bullet holes? That seems to be where the planes are being shot the most.

    The problem is, your sample isn’t representative of your underlying population. These are the planes that came back. If they get shot it the cockpit, they die.

    So, where should you put the armor? Well if they can get shot and come back, it’s not all that important, so put it everywhere else.

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    If there’s one great way to turn people either hard left or hard right, that would be it. Impoverish them. Take away from them what their own parents took for granted.

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    Translation: you’ll become more conservative when you have children and own a home

    Millennials: 😆
    Zoomers: 😂
    Alpha: 🤣
    Whateverthefuckcomesnext: 💀

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      I have a child and own a home, and am a member of the lost generation. Fuck the Republican Party and any conservative who believes their selfish bullshit should outweigh the greater good of others.

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          I agree about Republicans. I don’t agree about Democrats. Some, of course, are conservative, as they historically always have been. But a good portion are quite liberal.

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            As a whole, the Dems are pretty center of the aisle, because America as a whole is fairly conservative compared to Europe (despite 60% of the population being more liberal than the government at most times). Europeans generally consider the Dems in the US a conservative party, and corporate Dems are definitely closer to the right than to the left. The other issue besides the general conservative leaning in the country though is that there’s about 50 other groups of various left leaning shades that would be their own separate parties in Europe but are bunched in with the corporate Dems and therefore have little say in the party platform.

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            Seems people feel the need to try to educate me, not really sure why. But whatever :)

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        I agree with everything you said except, im confused about the use of the term lost generation. That’s a generation born in the 1880-1900s.

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          My mistake if so. I was under the impression that term was used for those of us born between 1978 or so thru 1983.

          In any case, I don’t see myself in the same vein as GenX nor Millennial, at least stereotypically.

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            I had an feeling you actually meant GenX but I just wanted to make sure. I know that GenX is often thought of as the latchkey generation. I’m on the edge of GenX/millennial.

            I just see myself as apart of the “ boomerang “ generation where I’ll be worse off than my parents. Fun times.

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        You joke, but if you ever talked to a homeowner about their lawn and heard them complain about their neighbor’s lawn…

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            While I disagree with your take that dandelions are bad, that’s a great mow job! How do you get stripes that pronounced?

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              I put the wheels on one side a notch lower than the other and alternate directions when you mow.

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            Your lawn is green concrete; a lifeless painting with nothing for pollinators.

            Your neighbor’s lawn has wildlife. Instead of being an artistic expression, its a bastion of the wild in the dead suburbs.

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                A tiny little strip of life, carefully manicured to minimize nature as much as possible.

                Might as well pave over the rest of it and just have potted plants for all the good that does.

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      Influencers on the whole are trying their best to make little nazis out of the next generations. Give them time. homer-bye

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        Which is weird since conservative politics is all about cutting funds for schools, gutting the department of education completely, no pre k or free lunches for kids, and getting rid of a large portion of our law enforcement. Just doesn’t make sense why any one who cares about education or safety would be conservative

        • getting rid of a large portion of our law enforcement

          I’m pretty certain neither party supports this. After 2020, every state and city, including dem-run ones increased police funding.

          If you’re talking about republicans complaining about the FBI because it went after Trump, they’re just as likely to abolish prisons because some jan 6ers got convicted. These people like those institutions too much when they’re doing their primary purpose of neutralizing leftist political movements.

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            You should look past the Cato Institute’s analysis of the KC schools situation. For example, the summary and conclusion sections of this article from the University of Michigan law school show that the conservative criticisms are based on myth.

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                You may revise your opinion after reading the summary and conclusion, but maybe you just figure the liberals at Michigan Law can’t possibly understand all the nuances vs someone watching their local news.

                Also, it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Your skimmed analysis of silly twists of numbers belies the full picture, and in my opinion, total desegregation without changing the major obstacles of the systemic segregation of the city’s real estate, to name one.

                BTW, I agree with you that merely throwing money at an issue without cause isn’t correct. One might argue against the ridiculous and constant over-budgeting of the military, for example. In KC, I believe it had many successes, though obviously not a complete realization of the goals (that shouldn’t have needed to be implemented in the first place).

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        Then why conservative when they actively hate children and society in general? It seems insane to lean that way.

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        Economic issues always come down to economic incentives. You care about property values because your home is an investment. You care about stocks because you have a retirement plan. You care about not being a burden on your children when you’re old and having inheritance to leave behind when you die. You care about crime because you have things to steal and a life to lose.

        I don’t have property. I will never retire. I will never have children. I am nothing and no one and that will never change.

        When I was younger I was a pretty typical liberal. By 30 I was a Marxist-Leninist and desired nothing but the complete destruction of the demon shithole country called Amerikkka. 😘

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                Nothing about the way everything’s going is designed to let me feel like a person. Money’s a requirement to simply exist. Everything’s a race to get enough money to sustain myself. I’m simply a worker who generates profit so my parasite of a boss and the associated shareholders can hang out on yachts. My job is nonsense too that doesn’t help anyone. I’m estranged from my family for gender and lifestyle reasons, can’t make friends because I’m always exhausted from work, can’t go to therapy except sparingly because it’s too expensive.

                No matter how much validity my humanity holds, none of it really matters if none of it can be expressed due to a combination of alienation and dead eyed pessimism about climate change.

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                No offense, but it seems pretty naive to say things will get better. I try not to jump on conservatives when they are willing to engage, but that’s a pretty rough take.

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                That’s a well intentioned sentiment. So don’t tske any of this as an attack, just a clarification.

                We aren’t just all on this journey together, some of us are oppressed by others. Our problems aren’t abstract, they are a consequence of the ruling class engaging in warfare on the rest of us, and that’s what the person above was getting at.

                We know we’re people, but we also know that we aren’t people to the ruling class.

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                Optimism is for older generations, who lived the before times when life got better year-after-year.

                That has never happened in my entire life. Next year will be like this one, but I’ll be more tired. Forever.

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        I care about schools. I want them to be free and public.

        I care about crime. I want to abolish the police and use that money to on social safety net programs including healthcare, social workers, housing, and more which is proven to reduce crime.

        I care about children. I want paid parental leave for both parents, guaranteed job return, free childcare, free healthcare for children, and a monthly check for groceries.

        Conservatives want none of that, and actively work against every point. Centre/centre-left only want some of that performatively and will undermine any implementation of these programs. The only people working for this are the “hard left.” And because of decades of anti-communist propaganda, no one will touch it.

        The only reason I can think of to be conservative and “socially liberal” is to protect your own capital at the expense of others while not wanting to feel bad about doing it.

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          Don’t say what conservatives want as that is a straw man argument.

          Schools are already free and public.

          Most people do not want to abolish the police. Crime would soar as there would be nothing to stop the criminals.

          You get a monthly check for groceries, it’s called a job. I would like to see paid time off. My employer gives 5 months off, which is very generous. I do think we need something at a national level.

          No, I wouldn’t touch communism with a ten foot pole. I will read anything suggested, but it killed millions of people, and not sure how you can say you want to abolish the police but vote for communism when the two are linked heavily in the real world. I have never seen as many police as I did in a communist country. I think this best take away about communism is if it was so great, why were people fleeing from it rather than to it?

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            Schools are already free and public

            Not Pre-K for most parents, and schools are only “free” and “public” for now, thanks to conservatives and liberals alike. College, tech college, and other educational programs are also not free and need to be. Private schools need to be abolished.

            Most people do not want to abolish the police. Crime would soar as there would be nothing to stop the criminals.

            First, okay? I said me, not everyone. Second, that’s objectively not true. If you care about a data-driven argument that shows how policing increases crime, see Alex Vitale’s End of Policing. You can download it for free in a bunch of different formats here.

            You get a monthly check for groceries, it’s called a job.

            Ah, so you truly are a conservative. A person’s worth is only equal to their productive in the blood-soaked economy machine. A child can’t have a job, jackass, that’s why giving new parents a check for groceries helps their income as their total costs rise.

            I think this best take away about communism is if it was so great, why were people fleeing from it rather than to it?

            You need to do some self-crit and question everything you have been taught. For example, there are more people in prison right now in the USA than there have ever been in a gulag. If you genuinely want to learn more about communism from a communist perspective, there are plenty of places to turn. You can start on the Prole Library with some shorter introductory works. You can watch Parenti’s famous yellow lecture for a short introduction, and you can watch Richard Wollf’s introduction to Marxian Economics on YouTube. You can read The Jakarta Method, Blacks and Reds, or listen to a few podcasts like Blowback to learn about the propaganda machine at specific times (e.g., Iraq, Cuban Revolution, Korean War, Afghanistan in order of seasons of Blowback).

            But you’re going to have to stop trying to win internet arguments by being a smarmy ass and put in the effort if you really want to learn how a better world is possible.

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              Pre-K isn’t necessary.

              College should not be free. Trade schools should be free. If college were free, we would have to limit it to the best, which means the poor would be excluded. It needs to be affordable. Right now, it is not affordable for most people. It doesn’t make sense for a garbage man to for someone else’s gender studies degree.

              Crime dropped because it wasn’t being reported. It wasn’t because there wasn’t a crime. There just wasn’t anyone to arrest them. As you can see, with out current crime rates, it is not a sustainable model. If they are not arrested, then they repeat their crimes. If you look at San Francisco, businesses are leaving because of the crime, which hurts the city and community. It’s why poor areas don’t have grocery stores. The theft causes the business to leave. If you want to solve the food desert problem, you have to solve the crime problem.

              https://www.police1.com/patrol-issues/articles/study-major-crime-complaints-fell-when-ny-police-took-a-break-from-proactive-policing-iIKjnJjkPaFQGcXY/

              I have talked to people who lived during communism and I have visited a communist country. It isn’t a life style i would embrace. I like having a decent home, food in my stomach and being able to make my own decisions. I have never seen such poverty in my life until I went to Cuba and talk to my Polish friends, growing up starving wasn’t the life I would want. There is a reason millions fled communism. It just doesn’t work.

              I have learned how to make the world better. Be accountable to yourself, work hard, and respect others. I have done very well doing those things. I don’t want ‘free’ things from the government. I want the government to stay out of my life as much as possible and to live my life the way I want. I do support a single payer system as I think it enables more freedom but otherwise I don’t need a nanny state.

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                Pre-K isn’t necessary.

                “Fuck them kids” - You

                Consistent with other studies that find preschool has a huge effect on kids, Walters, Gray-Lobe and Pathak find that the kids lucky enough to get accepted into preschools in Boston saw meaningful changes to their lives. These kids were less likely to get suspended from school, less likely to skip class, and less likely to get in trouble and be placed in a juvenile detention facility. They were more likely to take the SATs and prepare for college. The most eye-popping effects the researchers find are on high school graduation and college enrollment rates. The kids who got accepted into preschool ended up having a high-school graduation rate of 70% — six percentage points higher than the kids who were denied preschool, who saw a graduation rate of only 64%. And 54% of the preschoolers ended up going to college after they graduated — eight percentage points higher than their counterparts who didn’t go to preschool. These effects were bigger for boys than for girls. And they’re all the more remarkable because the researchers only looked at the effects of a single year of preschool, as opposed to two years of preschool. Moreover, in many cases, the classes were only half a day.

                College should not be free

                Scratch a liberal and…

                It doesn’t make sense for a garbage man to for someone else’s gender studies degree

                There it is folks. Mask off in three replies.

                “I will read anything suggested.”

                Direct links to books, articles, videos, and a podcast

                “I have talked to people who lived during communism and I have visited a communist country.”

                Your only interest is yourself and your capital. You only want to protect yourself and, by doing so, you actively harm others. You are not only incredibly selfish as a conservative but want people to applaud you for being “socially liberal.” I hope your pile of gold is worth it.

                I only have one further question: have your children cut off communications with you or is that something you have to look forward to?

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                  THe child should be at home with their parents.

                  My child adores me. She didn’t do pre-school either. We spent time with her and developed her as person. I get you may not able to teach a child to read, but most people can.

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        Not in my case. I grew up pretty conservative she moved right libertarian until learning economics in college which moved me left. I bought a home and have two kids and am squarely on the left. I care about schools and crime which is why I want more funding for education and programs that actually decrease crime.

        Healthcare is the big one for me. We should not be forking over 20% of our paychecks for healthcare. People on the right are fucking nuts to believe that the cost is because of too much regulation considering we have the least regulation and pay twice as much with now limited options. We need Medicare for All.

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    In order to be conservative you have to be afraid, irrationally. Afraid your guns will be taken, afraid the gays are going to out-breed you (not even kidding, they really “think” that), afraid what you want won’t be what everyone does, afraid other people are smarter or more capable, afraid that when you die you won’t get magicked somewhere to live forever. Basically afraid of everything whether it makes any sense or not. And afraid someone else will find out how afraid you are all the time.

    They’re pathetic and not fit to walk a dog much less run anything.

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      A lot of that specific brand of conservatism is very American. While everywhere has conservatives, and I totally agree they’re build on a foundation of personal fear, they have very different presentations in different places!

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        Yet they are fools everywhere. I can confirm for Germany, bunch of anti-science idiots who make my blood boil.

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      afraid the gays are going to out-breed you (not even kidding, they really “think” that)

      Do, uh, do they understand how reproduction works, or…?

      afraid what you want won’t be what everyone does, afraid other people are smarter or more capable

      Well, yeah, that’s almost certainly true.

      afraid that when you die you won’t get magicked somewhere to live forever.

      Atheists would say that’s true too.

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      In order to be conservative you have to be afraid, irrationally. Afraid your guns will be taken

      Yeah, so, there are no guns I’m afraid of being taken from me, because I don’t own any guns, and nobody I know owns any, and they’re not afraid either.

      Peak US defaultism right here.

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    GenXer. I’ve gotten more progressive. I used to consider myself a moderate dem back in the 90s. On the other hand, the 90s moderate dem is now considered a commie woke libtard, so shrug? Shocking that I want justice for all, fair wages, end systemic racism, end homophobia, etc. So librul! I’m destroying Western society! Oh wait, I’m a POC immigrant woman, course I’m destroying America!

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    You become conservative when you lose ability to adapt and learn, thereby yearning for the days when you were you were younger and, as you mostly falsely remember, “times were simpler”, which is a delusion caused by the different lifestyle and world perception you used to have. Now you’re just older and scared because you forgot to keep up with the times.

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    I was actually more right wing as a kid. Now that I’ve learned some things about the world that’s when I became a left leaning liberal.

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      Went from voting far right in 2017 (fucking welfare abusers ) from far left in 2022 (fuckibg corporations costing three times more than welfare) kek

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      If you make sure that you never ever stop learning and that there is never an end to the process you will eventually go further.

      Don’t stop.

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      I’m at a pretty low level of rightishness, but I fluctuate a bit. I’ve been socially left since my late teens and sort of homeless but libertarian economically. My personal ethics are definitely closer to some left-lib ideologies.

      I’m really uncomfortable with subjective categories. My brain wants objective lines. I’m also extra empathetic. Working out a personal philosophy that fits both is kind of time consuming, but worth it because my brain really likes objective lines.

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    I hate it when boomers, specifically, say this. My grandfather, who is Silent Generation, will tell you that he’s gotten more liberal as he’s gotten older. Whenever I hear a boomer say this, it’s used as a shaming, like “you don’t understand now but you will when you’re older”. Turns out I haven’t gotten more conservative. I listened to minority populations and then came out and it’s turned me more leftist.

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      Boomers, in general, are a generation of spoiled children that, for the most part, have never seen the true hardships of any other generation. “Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” Boomers are the weak men that created hard times for the following generations, yet they keep living and consuming as if our world isn’t dying. “Fuck you, got mine” I guess.

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      Yeah, same. It’s also part of their mindset that “progressive = immature” which I’ve always found really confusing.

      Yes, the idea that my taxes should be spent for the benefit of all is immature. Gotcha.