• deft@ttrpg.network
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    1 year ago

    i think it is more like emotional distance?

    its creepy to intentionally not be with someone else after a breakup because there is some weird lingering feelings. like get over it move on

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      1 year ago

      One day after breakup you will have some lingering feelings and hooking up with someone else just to suppress them is not a healthy reflex I think. Especially if the other person doesnt know youre with them just to strike a “hit” and feel less shitty with yourself.

      • HardlightCereal@lemmy.worldOP
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        1 year ago

        I’ve been in breakups where I immediately got with someone else and I’ve been in breakups where I wanted to take some time on my own afterwards. Feelings are complicated and there’s no right answer to every situation.

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        1 year ago

        It’s not healthy, but rebounds are perfectly understandable. Like getting drunk alone after a break up