i.e. a lazy person calling you lazy or someone uneducated about something thinking you’re the uninformed one
It takes one to know one.
The pot calling the kettle black.
Yes, that’s projection.
LeftistTankieHemoGlyphemia
It’s also called standard American conservative politics.
Every accusation is a confession.
Projection, or machiavellianism.
Edit: preemptive “no you”lol
To be understood, I’d probably just say projection. If you need to emphasize a specific aspect of the behavior, you could break it down as a maladaptive inferiority complex that prompts social anxiety evidenced by momentary paranoid ideation and compulsory preemptive introjection.
Explanation: introjection refers to a mirroring behavior common in children. In this case, the accuser anticipates an accusation from you. To defend themselves, they hurl the accusation right back at you. But of course the first accusation only happened in their head, so all we witness is someone wildly accusing someone else of having their own flaw.
It really is childish behavior which is why it’s such an annoying situation. Literally dealing with a delusional toddler defending yourself against things that never happened.
Yes that is projection, which is a form of hypocrisy.
It’s you who’s projecting her, not me.
I call it Maganomics
Trumpery
Dunning-Kruger adjacent projection
I think “projection” works. I thought of “external attribution” as well when I read this question.