• ruckblack@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Why are we pretending that this is just an inherent quality that needs to be taught out rather than a serious deviation from the norm? “Teach people not to murder” yeah, uh, we do, and unreasonable people still murder.

    • girlfreddy@sh.itjust.works
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      1 year ago

      Unreasonable murderers are not the norm tho.

      Men thinking they can control women is far more common, and the cure for that is parents teaching their kids that shit won’t be tolerated.

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        1 year ago

        Yeah, but I don’t trust other parents to actually teach their sons that. So I will still have to teach my daughters to defend themselves against those kind of people.

      • ruckblack@sh.itjust.works
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        1 year ago

        Lol. Yeah. I was more comparing murder to rape. I don’t know where you live, but where I live, men raping women is not normalized.