Going to lie down because it’s hot as balls in my apartment and also because I’m just exhausted from not sleeping great. Thus why this is being posted randomly in the middle of the day. I was going to post this tonight but god knows if I’ll even be awake.

I’ve always had really awful birthdays. Either it was outright ignored or I was punished for even having one. My parents were… unpleasant. Star Trek became my escape. Could see amazing people make amazing choices and be the best they wanted to be instead of lying and saying they were good people. Actions speak louder than words, after all, and the actions of the crew of the Enterprise-D (specifically) were what helped me sort of override a lot of the disgusting hateful stuff I was taught as a child. Also made me feel like a person instead of a burden.

I’ve not really been able to delve in deep to a lot of Trek communities sometimes because, well, it’s the internet. People can get a bit toxic behind a computer screen. This place has been anything but. Pure kindness and love from everyone here. Top to the bottom. Honestly it seems pretty worth it to me to forego birthday gifts throughout my life to be able to find y’all.

You are all awesome. I don’t want birthday wishes and stuff, I get enough of those from Starbucks and other companies trying to get me to buy their shit that I cannot afford, but I want y’all to appreciate yourself for a couple minutes. You’re a great person, you’ve helped make an amazing community, and I am eternally grateful.

You are AWESOME. Love y’all.

Live so very motherfucking long and prosper more than you could ever dream.

  • Xusontha@ls.buckodr.inkEnglish
    29·
    1 year ago

    To another year of “quality” Star Trek memes! It’s always great seeing you around bud, you help make Risa the best community one could ask for!

        • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
          13·
          1 year ago

          Here’s the big difference though

          You made yours.

          I just saved mine ages ago when trolling the internet.

          Yours are FAR more impressive.

          Also the USS Burritos is fucking hysterical and I stand by that.

          • Xusontha@ls.buckodr.inkEnglish
            8·
            1 year ago

            Yeah but you’re a curator of the arts, I’m just a dude who chuckles far too much at his own bad jokes then posts them online

            I will say though, the Burritos was pretty good

            • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
              8·
              1 year ago

              Wait if I’m a curator of the arts does that mean my username should actually be Geordie?

              Burritos is my favorite Trek meme i’ve seen in years. I’m not being light when I say hysterical. I cried laughing the first time I saw it.

              • Xusontha@ls.buckodr.inkEnglish
                7·
                1 year ago

                Yes you have to delete your account and make a new one as Geordi@startrek.website, sorry I don’t make the rules

                • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
                  4·
                  1 year ago

                  Okay, I have actually legitimately considered deleting my account and restarting as Shaw instead of Stamets. Both characters I identify with pretty damn heavily.

  • NegativeNull@lemm.ee@lemm.eeEnglish
    26·
    1 year ago

    This community is, by far, my favorite part of the internet. It make me smile every single day.

    Despite being told not to: Happy Birthday!

    Happy Birthday Again

    • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
      12·
      1 year ago

      There is no fucking way you cut out the face of Stamets that fast. How long have you had that?!

      Also hella accurate. And I love it. Best gift ever.

          • The Picard Maneuver@startrek.websiteEnglish
            8·
            1 year ago

            I downloaded and uninstalled like 10 apps looking for something that would allow me to cut out images easily, then wound up just cutting something by hand with the erase tool in a meme generator, which sucked.

            After someone showed me this, it’s been smooth sailing.

        • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
          15·
          1 year ago

          Thank you so much. I am going to really enjoy this new fun tool. Soooooo many penis stamps. My friends already hate me but with this they will actively plan my death.

          Thanks!

    • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
      16·
      1 year ago

      Then the internet archive is my new favorite person! First gift in years. Then again it’s a person so my appreciation shall pass onto you instead.

      Thanks buddy <3

      • Arotrios@kbin.social
        7·
        1 year ago

        Now that’s just wrong. Fungoidaphobia and the resulting discrimination against hybrid lifeforms is a real problem, even in today’s enlightened Federation, and you should have never suffered empty birthdays as a result.

        Family over fungus, I always say. But family is where you find it, and seeing as I just happened to be passing through Orion space on my way here, here’s a keg of Klingon blood wine and a barrel of Andorian ale for the party, that is if you don’t mind a bit of pirate contraband to liven things up a bit…

  • TheGoldenGod@lemmy.worldEnglish
    15·
    1 year ago

    Happy birthday! 🎂 And don’t worry to much, I think having blah parents is part of realizing what’s truly important in this turd burger we live on lol. Enjoying the small things, because existence is fleeting.

  • emile@tacobu.deEnglish
    14·
    1 year ago

    Hi Stamets, since you didn’t want birthday wishes let me thank you for your posts and your open-hearted comments instead. They really brighten my day, here and on 196 (didn’t even realize that many of the good ones there were posted by you, too. Sokath, his eyes uncovered).

    All the best to you!

    • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
      6·
      1 year ago

      I’m glad that I’m able to cheer you up a bit! There’s a few reasons I post but that’s a big one. Life sucks. Why not make it a lil more fun, eh?

  • Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social
    13·
    1 year ago

    I’m really glad you had a happy birthday. You’re one of the most prolific and hilarious members of this community, so thanks for everything you do to make this place great.

    Also, we share an astrological sign! So that’s fun.

    • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
      8·
      1 year ago

      God I fucking love Voyager.

      I’ll try Chakotay. I’LL TRY. However I will not be able to get my hair to do that.

  • OurTragicUniverse@kbin.social
    13·
    1 year ago

    Wishing you a good year ahead! You’re appreciated here.

    And I agree with you, this is the nicest Star Trek community I’ve found too.

    It took me a while to realise but I’m no longer bracing myself for racism or sexism every time I click on a trek post here!

    • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
      9·
      1 year ago

      RIGHT?! The extremely few times it’s cropped up the mods are on the ball extremely quickly. This place is utterly amazing.

        • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
          1·
          1 year ago

          It’s reddit. Unfortunately that problem was pretty pervasive across the entire website. The Trek subreddits, at least comments, were completely unbearable for me. If it wasn’t people screeching “NUTREK BAD NOT GOOD TREK BAD TREK NOT REAL TREK” then it was someone being a condescending asshole. If it wasn’t that then it was just racism/sexism. The insane thing would be that they clearly deluded themselves into thinking they weren’t being bigoted because they’re Star Trek fans. I saw some pretty horrific shit said about Tilly and Burnham that got massively upvoted and praised. Was the most thinly veiled sexism around topped off with a dollop of racism.

          I engaged with the Discovery subreddit but only in specific threads because the mods had specifically marked them as places where people couldn’t do their typical “OH MY GOD THIS SHOW JUST FUCKING SUCKS” whinefest. That engagement didn’t last long however. Got tired of being the only one defending the show. Seemed like I was just surrounded by people who were only watching it because they had no personality of their own so they supplemented it with hatred.

          As you might have been able to tell from my monthish here, I don’t like giving out that energy. I try to be as positive and polite as possible. Obviously I fuck up and fail sometimes but people there just never even tried. Started dragging me down. I had to leave that place, and reddit as a whole, because I noticed I was starting to get incredibly bitter not just to the people in the Trek subs but the people in every sub and people not even on reddit.

          • Xusontha@ls.buckodr.inkEnglish
            1·
            1 year ago

            I definitely knew about the NUTREK BAD WAAAA response but I didn’t about the others, which seems strange given Star Trek itself but who knows. I’m just glad this place doesn’t seem to have that.

            • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
              1·
              1 year ago

              I’ve seen it pop up here like two or three times. In every case I blocked the person. I’ve got zero interest in seeing that type of negativity. I get having criticisms, and you can be fine sharing your personal opinion, but there becomes a point where it’s just whining and bashing. Or when it clearly comes from a hateful place. Just not interested.

  • peopleproblems@lemmy.worldEnglish
    12·
    1 year ago

    Happy Birthday!

    You’re a great person too. I’m on good terms with my parents, but I’ve always had a really hard time connecting with my dad.

    This community keeps giving me ways to talk to him with the shit you and other come up with, so thank you too.

    • Stamets@startrek.websiteOPEnglish
      9·
      1 year ago

      Star Trek always brings families together! I hope that it is able to help connect you guys even further <3