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11 months agoAgreed. By having this neutral third party you get to see, hopefully, a more genuine reaction than just being told what you want to hear.
Agreed. By having this neutral third party you get to see, hopefully, a more genuine reaction than just being told what you want to hear.
While I’ll agree with you that this should not be needed in a long term relationship, as you should have already been able to have open conversations about your hopefully shared core values, but I’d say using it as a weeder for an early relationship or first date situation isn’t a bad idea. It allows you to start the conversation naturally.
All the studies show literally the opposite. Maybe you’re less productive, but that makes you the outlier.
You’re not wrong. Then I just feel bad, because I never finish a book since now I’ve trained myself to fall asleep after two pages no matter what time of day it is.