Great story. Thanks for sharing.

Interesting comment. Many decades ago I first vaginally fucked my spouse. When I was done she had to ask me if i had fucked her. She was so new to all sex stuff she wasn’t sure what had happened

I agree that I don’t understand the notion that for swaps the females have to be bi. Never understood that

Along the lines of your question I have seen videos where the woman is blowing and jerking the guy off then completely stops. No touching at all. And the guy will spurt out ropes for 15 - 20 seconds. I have never experienced that . For me it would be a “ruined” organism if the stimulation stopped before I was totally finished.

That is very helpful commentary. Males are always trying to figure out how females think and never doing a good of it.

I had no idea there was actually a name for it

My top 2 are her sucking my cock and letting me cum in her mouth. That has always been a hard NO. The second is anal. We have done it a few times. I still can’t figure out under what circumstances she is willing to perform this vs a simple No.

can you describe what you thought the differences were of a guy sucking your cock vs a woman?

I have not considered having her wear high heels. Might try that

Excellent and simple explanation. Also liked the oral sex analogy

Interesting how anyone could consider a simple question about sexual activity hateful. And even more interesting that the “offended” person would comment on it.

Does the guy getting fucked in the ass always maintain that role? Or do the partners sometimes switch off? How does the guy getting ass fucked get satisfied with an orgasim ?

I’ve never had a woman say they could actually feel the cum being shot into them. But they all know that you are cumming because they feel your body tense up and then release.

I would like to try double penetration. Ideally it would be with a husband and wife. The husband inserted into her vagina and me in her ass.

For swapping to make sense both the husband and wife have to have the same level of desire for sex. The wife definitely has to be orgasmic. And then it becomes just a hobby of wanting a bit of variety of who you fuck. You really have to have the mind set that you are happy in your marriage but sex with others is purely an erotic physical thing.

Agreed that in high school many boys experiment. But I also agree I never even considered performing anal sex as a top or bottom

Because I think most …if not all… boys “experiment” when they reach puberty and their hormones are racing. Those interactions would be considered Bi or Gay. But once you are an adult it’s different and at that point you are either heter, bi, or gay

I had one experience like this. Another couple who we really like had swapped with my wife and I several times. And the swap “guidelines” would be for everyone to finish and then we would take a break with some cocktails and something to eat. When everyone was ready for round 2 the wives would start to orally work on the other husband to get them hard enough to perform act 2. Out of the blue the other wife asks me and my wife if it was OK for her husband to take me into his mouth start the process. We were both stunned but I agreed to try it. To say the least it was interesting. Once you get used to watching another man blowing you it actually feels really great. Maybe it’s because only a person with a penis knows best how to really suck another penis. I would think the same applies to a woman going down on another woman.

I would think the questioner means a “looser” vagina. You can definitely feel the difference. You slosh around with less friction. Still fun and it takes longer to finish which isn’t a bad thing.

Actually we should get back to the original concept. Real people with real jobs all termed limited for 2 terms max for either the House or Senate.