the keyword you need is “escorts”. Search for “escorts in <city>” and that should be a good start. Careful on those sites though, don’t do anything silly

are they fake?

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Seems like you’ve made your decision and are just looking for validation. This is not a healthy attitude and there’s a strong chance you’ll regret it later on. If it were me I’d say don’t do it.

I get it seems extreme to people who haven’t tried it, but it’s really not and I recommend at least trying it. Read up how to do it safely (VERY CLEAN and VERY LUBED) and start small and work your way up. It’s honestly the best sensation I’ve ever felt. It’s thrilling and gives the best most explosive orgasms of my life. Amazing feeling. 10/10

I don’t get any of it. Many of these things seem like they should be discussed with a therapist and not harboured and defended as a kink

Strong disagree. Kinks are not mental illnesses. People like what they like, people have fun in their own ways. Expressing that is not inherently wrong. Illegal stuff is different but if everyone is on board and having harmless fun then it’s all good.

People can express mental illness via weird kinks, but weird kinks are not mentally ill.

How do you even make the marks that defined lol. Surely that’s not just from a slap. A slap just leaves a vague red circle mark, not nearly that detailed. Interested how this was done.

r/sounding

There’s no equivalent community on lemmy yet unfortunately.