I once ghosted a guy after a date because he looked too much like Elon and I couldn’t unsee it.

You can adjust it in settings so it only sends you notifications when someone DMs you or specifically mentions you in can.

Their argument has a lot to do with people not establishing context upfront unlike your example with “someone called”. I can’t count the number of times I’ve had a conversation with someone talking about a non-binary person, only to realize five minutes in they weren’t talking about a group of people. It’s super jarring when it happens.

Well yeah, that’s the whole point. It’s harder to learn another workflow when you’re already in the mindset of the other.

Used to have this as the only rule for my Discord server, and it obviously wasn’t clear enough for people to get.

Mine doesn’t do this, but it does do a few slow spins right at the end so that everything settles to the bottom. Maybe yours is also doing this by waiting?