• halfapage@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Thank you for the kind words.

    It’s scary how you are taking words right from my mind.

    There is a lot of things originating from such situations to share and talk about, but I guess this is not necessarily a space to do that. What matters is it is done, and it is best to move on.

    Thank you again, and I hope you’ve got a good place of your own.

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      10 months ago

      It’s scary how you are taking words right from my mind.

      Sorry about that. Just in case it would help you to hear these words, I sent them your way. It’s a simple case of been there done that, and I wish I had allowed myself to see the situation as clearly then as I did when I replied to you. But for me, all that was a long time ago, and all is well these days. Thank you for the kind wishes.

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        10 months ago

        Oh no no. I’m sorry! I’m not a native speaker and my phrasing must have been wrong. What I meant was that what you wrote was very accurate. In fact it was exactly what I was thinking and what my experience has been as well. Thank you for your insight, I appreciate it! I’m sorry you’ve been through a similar situation, and I hope you’ve overcame it.

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          10 months ago

          Your written English is excellent, so I had no idea you are not a native speaker. Please know we’re good!

          But if I may add one last thing – don’t forget to watch your back on the way out. Just as you are leaving because this is not a good fit for you, there is someone else just as happy to see them come in and relax all those high standards. So don’t talk about your plans, don’t give away details of your job hunt, act like you’re 100% happy to be there and you’ve seen the light and want to work there forever (nauseating, I know) and just for a little while until you’re out, don’t trust your coworkers to keep your secrets.

          My DMs are open should you ever need them, and I wish you the very best.