I had this experience only once a long time ago. I had become casual friends with a guy at work. We would occasionally go out for drink after work. My spouse always got home from work later than me. So a drink or 2 was just a time killer till I went home for dinner. One day, I’ll call him Bill, said if you are up for a post work cocktail how about coming over to the house. I said sure. He lived on my way home so it wouldn’t be out of my way. I follow him home. He makes us each a drink and we relax watching the local news. This was the first time I had met his wife who was in the kitchen doing some pre dinner prep. Not long after we sat down she also made herself a drink and joined us just hanging out. They appeared to be the perfect middle aged couple. Both in great shape. And no kids by choice. I finished my drink. Thanked both of them and went home. About a month later Bill had his car in the shop. His wife had dropped him off in the morning and he asked if I could give him a ride home and join him and Ann, his wife, for a drink. I said sure. On the ride to his house he mentioned how Ann had enjoyed meeting me. Then he startled me by asking if I was familiar with the term spitroast in the context of a sexual act. I told him that I knew what it was and had seen it in porno vidieos. I started laughing and asked him why he would bring something like that up. He got real serious and said that Ann had always wanted to try it and specifically asked if you might try it out with us. Even though I thought he has to be kidding, I readily agreed to help Ann fulfill her fantasy. She greeted us at the door. She got us all a drink and we just sat down in their living room. I was too afraid to say anything about what Bill had mentioned in the car. But Bill, with a big smile, announced to Ann that I was willing to do a spitroast with them. Ann said great. Let’s finish our drinks and try it out. At this point I asked Ann to be tell me exactly what roll she wanted me to play. She said that she wanted me to fuck her doggy while she sucked Bill’s cock. I still thought they were kidding, but readily agreed. With our drinks finished, she came over to where I was sitting and knelt in front of me. She effortlessly unzipped me, took out my cock and started sucking it. In short order we were all naked. Ann led me into their bedroom. She got on her knees and waited for me to enter. She felt great. After I had a rhythm going, Bill knelt down in front of her and positioned himself so Ann could easily take him into her mouth. It took just a few minutes for Bill to explode into her mouth. By this time I had adjusted to the shock of fucking a guy’s wife right in front of him. I firmly grasped Ann’s hips and was ready to get serious. In short order I filled her with a huge load. We all collapsed in exhaustion. I said that I had to run. Got dressed and went home. I still remained friends with Bill but never again went to his house. It was just a fantasy for him and his wife to try once.
I’ve been spitroasted yea, but it made me feel sick like I was going to pass out so we stopped after like 5 minutes.
So you cheated on your spouse? That’s pretty fucked up that you just super easily did that to them.
I’m in a poly relationship, but my partners know about each other and have known from the very beginning. If you care about your spouse, you shouldn’t cheat.
All that being said the first time I had sex with my last girlfriend I spitrosted her with her husband and when he was done she got on top and fucked me until I was pushing rope. All in all 10/10
Less judgement please. It’s just a post.
Nah, I think I’ll continue to judge people who cheat on their spouses. If you want out of the relationship, then leave, and if you want to add other people to the relationship, then have an open and hones (and difficult) conversation.
Is this an ai generated comment? Did you even read the post?
I did but apparently you didn’t.
We would occasionally go out for drink after work. My spouse always got home from work later than me. So a drink or 2 was just a time killer till I went home for dinner.
How do you know that they didn’t agree on an open relationship? I know the poly community is very explicit about it but it tends to be about full recurrent relationships. When it comes to casual sex some people are more like “whatever comes your way, go for it”. My girlfriend and me are like that and she’s a lot more promiscuous than me :)
Write in paragraphs. Wall of text.
I was spitroasted once or twice. My poly gf (who was as open and casual as most others in this fluid dynamic we had) invited her other bf over to fuck me in the ass while I ate her out. Great experience, though I should have dilated. After that I started looking for harder partners to wreck my ass, but I didn’t get into BDSM as much until I exhausted the mainstream vanilla routes. 8 years later, I’m taking steps to prepare for getting properly sodomized, cause it’s been a while.
That sounds great. I fantasize about eating my SO’s pussy while I get fucked in the ass. Glad you got to experience that.
It was one of my first sexual experiences. I was a lucky boy. I was living in Portland at the time, and I know how hard it can be to find queer relationships in more rural areas. You could ask your SO to find a bi/pan guy to fuck you. I’ve found that girls are able to navigate those things easier.
That was one of your first experiences? You started out well.
Yes, my SO would be able to find a guy to fuck me. However, we’re hesitant to bring a third into things since that can often be very complex.
Don’t worry about it. You’ll cheat on each other later so it’s better to get used to it.
Don’t be shitty.
Calling people out on friendly advice isn’t very neighborly. Most relationships aren’t built for monogamy.
And non-monogamy isn’t cheating. And saying “you’ll cheat on each other” is not friendly.
Have done, yes it’s fun. I quite like MFM/MMF but don’t do them anymore, absolutely the thing I miss most from when we were swinging, and oddly enough my second time having sex, ever, when I was an older teen was two bi guys who were my friends and were a couple, so I’d say it’s been a lifelong enjoyable thing for me, a once in awhile indulgence, rather than a fantasy.
can you describe what you thought the differences were of a guy sucking your cock vs a woman?
Well no, because I’m a woman. My husband, and my ex both said it was about the same but mentally stimulating to have a guy do it (husband because dominant rush, ex because bisexual and was repressed).