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    Beehaw: You should join our instance.

    Also Beehaw: We’re defederating from two of the largest instances.

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      It’s a safe space and the fediverse rapidly expanded tenfold. Beehaw has stated outright that they want to refederate with the big instances, but are delaying until mod tools improve enough to allow them to maintain their safe space for their gaggle of vulnerable folks in the wake of the severely increased workload.

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        That’s nice and all, but “join our instance” and “we’re defederated from the other two biggest instances” are in direct opposition to each other, doesn’t matter what excuses you use.

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          Only if you don’t think about it are they not mutually exclusive ideas. Safe space first, increase size of safe space second.

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          Gotta love how spending time with like-minded people has now been framed as an “echo chamber.” I blame reddit, since that’s where I first encountered this nonsense.

          I’m fine with my “echo chambers.” We are able to have really in-depth, adult discussions about things like LGBTQIA issues, mental health, and politics without having to constantly swat away a bunch of sea lions.

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            You do realize that associating with primarily people who share the same views or values as you is literally an echo chamber right?

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              Sometimes people want to have a conversation without someone with the username DMmeYourNudes wanting to debate them.

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                  No, it’s a community of people discussing things that they know a lot about.

                  You’re basically going “Oh, you don’t want the pigeon to join your chess tournament? Are you scared it will outplay you while shitting on the board?”

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                    Yes, because everyone who joins beehaw has a doctorate or is a verified expert in their field lol. It ain’t that deed dude. The exclude people because they don’t want to be told their views are wrong regardless of the truth. That’s an echo chamber.

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              Nope. That term is only used by sea lions and shitlords. It’s one of those terms like “virtue signaling” that immediately lets you know the person has less to offer society than a common housefly or roach.

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            I argue with fascists, exclus, medicalists, and sexists all the time and I’ve never met a sealion. But I have met neurotypical people who expect their sense of cognitive empathy to work on neurodivergent people, and then project all sorts of BS onto them for having a different opinion. IME that term is a dogwhistle for ableism.

            EDIT: Just looked up Beehaw’s guidelines and apparently it’s against the guidelines to accuse someone of sealioning so maybe Beehaw isn’t so bad

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              You’ve never spent any time on reddit, I take it?

              That’s a whole colony of sea lions.

              Lucky you, but I encounter sea lions all the time. People like Tucker Carlson and Ben Shapiro have formed entire careers around sea-lioning.

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                Well see, sealioning is feigning ignorance, and it’s a simple fact that bigots really are that ignorant. I’ve never met anyone who understood progressive issues and still disagreed, except for amoral people who chose to have little investment and wouldn’t bother to engage in sealioning. This idea you’re proposing that there are people who pretend to be ignorant doesn’t make any sense to me. If they are acting like foolish bigots, I choose to believe them.

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      Beehaw: You should join our instance

      Where does it say that?

      This isn’t Reddit/Meta/𝕏, there are no ads, data mining is free for all, you aren’t the product, this is a service to the users. A rabbi would reject you 3 times before considering letting you join the club, Beehaw only asks you to explain yourself once. If you don’t know why to join, then don’t 🙂

      Beehaw: We’re defederating from two of the largest instances.

      Is “largest” a good thing? Reddit is even larger, is that better?

      People split into smaller communities anyway, all a “larger” instance does is reduce the granularity of behaviors, shoving everyone into the same bin. Not all people want to be with all others all the time, smaller instances of like-minded people make it easier to pick your own crowds.