• Ving Thor@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    3 months ago

    For me it was was anal play. I have always had an anal fetish that I was a bit ashamed of. At some point I brought it up to my wife and to my suprise she was open to it.

  • ShunkW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    3 months ago

    I like tease and denial stuff. My ex got into it for me. The first night we spent together, he ruined my orgasm perfectly and then locked me in chastity for 3 months.

  • HydraulicMonkey@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    3 months ago

    I have a CNC kink. I have done one scene with a partner I have built up trust with, and am currently discussing another scene with a new partner.

    • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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      3 months ago

      This is probably mine too. 0 to fisting while fighting back was so intense, just knowing I couldn’t stop it. I don’t even really like the fisting (when the guy pops his hand back out it is unsettlingly close feeling to childbirth) but he knew it was the far edge of what I am willing to do. We didn’t work it all out ahead of time as we had a lot of experience with each other.

      It is both hot and sexy and also upsetting and cathartic and just overall a peak experience.

      • HydraulicMonkey@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        3 months ago

        That’s awesome. Though I may have not made it clear, I am the aggressor.

        Many women I have spoken to love the catharsis of the scenes, so that definitely seems to be common to the kink.

        • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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          3 months ago

          Yeah I am glad there are guys into it, and in an ethical way - I can’t do the other side, someone who says no just shuts me down, turns me right off. But for me saying ‘please no’ is even hotter than ‘please’ somehow. I gave up on trying to understand or fix it once I figured out that submissive was not equal to passive at all, wasn’t some form of laziness.

    • juliebean@lemm.eeEnglish
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      3 months ago

      it took me a good few moments to realize you probably didn’t mean computer numerical control.

      • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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        3 months ago

        I’ve been using the Erostek ET232. It’s pricy but designed for this purpose. I wouldn’t recommend an actual medical device, they don’t tend to get the job done.

        • LowtierComputer@lemmy.worldEnglish
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          3 months ago

          Wow that is pricey. Thank you for the advice.

          Is there anything you use it for that may be outside of the usual expectations?

          • Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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            3 months ago

            I guess that depends on how you define “unusual”! I think most people that are into this agree that a good unit/setup can bring “hands free” orgasms. Meaning, no other stimulation necessary.

            I’m not affiliated with this site but if you want to see various toys for TENS check out, http://happystim-usa.com

  • LouZiffer666@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    3 months ago

    That was probably the first time we did anything dirty. Up until then my wife and I were very vanilla with each other. Good, passionate sex, but nothing more than piv in two or three positions and a lot of me eating her out.

    One day we had one of these intense talks about our relationship and somehow landed on our sex life. She expressed some things, I expressed some and so I told her that in porn, I really liked it, when the guy cums on her tits. (Most will count this as vanilla, but here we are.)

    Anyway - We got on with our day as usual until it was time to go grocery shopping. „And when we get back, we can try out your fantasy.“ My heart was racing and I never got through the supermarket that fast.

    When we got back, she took off her top, pulled my dick out and jerked me onto her big boobs. I was happy as a clam. 10/10 experience.

  • arin@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    3 months ago

    Outdoor sex is better than i thought. I’ve yet to try threesome with multiple girls but I’m super hopeful for that. Current girl says she’ll be too jealous to invite others

    • Heartwotalk@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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      3 months ago

      I definitely agree. I will say that when you eventually are able to make that threesome happen, ask nicely for a double blowjob. It is the hottest thing there is.

  • hungrythirstyhorny@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    3 months ago

    im interested in cnc because im more of a submissive man and id would love if woman more aggressive than me…

    but till now. idk if it will happen

    pardon my english :)

  • CYE@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    3 months ago

    Rimming (giving). I (m) love how dirty and intimate it is. I’ve surprised my wife with it a few times but only recently found out that she loves it, so I hope to do it a lot more.