Further information on the situation with the transphobia: Abigail has repeatedly misgendered me and defended her choice by saying she chooses to refer to all people of unknown gender as male.

Hey, Abigail here. I just want people to know the reason this person got banned is likely because of a deleted comment not included in that thread. OP called me ~~autistic ~~ mentally unwell for not liking politics. THAT kind of behavior is not acceptable on lemmy.blahaj.zone, so I reported the comment and let Ada handle it. Ada tried in good faith to reason with OP but it was clear they just wanted to fight. So yeah, they got banned. Ada’s a fantastic lady who’s been great at keeping the trolls at bay.

Edit: and the bit about me misgendering them is also wrong. Gender didn’t come into play until after I had left the conversation. English default on the internet is male for strangers.

Source:
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669

WRT the statement that I accused them of autism for not liking politics, further info is available here: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669 https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2320815 https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2321026

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    In another thread on this topic, I stated I had yet to’ve had a reason to hate you

    This is still true.

    These continued attacks on two of your (allegedly) fellow trans people have caused me to start to develop a dislike of you.

    Why don’t you go attack a cis person?
    They’re constantly fucking up on the fediverse and being abrasive to them is funny and a moral good.

    Instead you have been directing your efforts and ire at impugning the motives of two people who—IF they are propagating transphobia—would themselves be victims of it. And you treat them as though they are outside their own community, assaulting it. You give bad faith readings. Worst, you try to turn communities against them. Not very Hank Venture of you.

    You are annoying as fuck. Would you could find a proper target for that you could be a powerful tool against oppression. As things are you’re just a tool.

    You handle isolated points on which you’re right entirely the wrong way.
    Someone calls a blue object purple, you don’t just say, “It’s blue.” You get custom knuckledusters crafted with " B " " L " " U " " E " across 4 fingers and start punching “Ǝ U ⅃ ᗺ” bruises into the face of the person who called it purple and everyone around them.

    To protect a community from its own members? Direct that ire outwards.

    Assuming, of course, you’re not just a troll as we went over earlier.
    Only about 40% believe you’re real.

    If as seems increasingly more likely you are trolling then I don’t like you one bit, though cannot bring myself to not consider the time you said you were allergic to grass to not be funny. Like if you’re a troll you can go fuck yourself and a few other choice suggestions, but I’ll still go ahead and clap for that.

    And if you’re not I would suggest you abandon this account, think hard about how you come off to your community and try again with a new account that acts less annoyingly (except to cis people because fuck them).