Your first definition of gender not mattering is exactly right, and if the person doesn’t show up to correct the use of pronouns then who cares.
There is no “honour” to defend for a random unknown individual. It’s just for self validation or so that people who do such things feel like they belong to the “tribe” or whatever. Tribalism is the stupidest reason to use pronouns.
Did you even read my comment? I was saying that you said nothing about that second point in your original comment and that’s why people are going after you. Asking if pointing out people misgendering by accident is necessary is one question. Stating that pronouns don’t matter in an agressive matter is another
Your first definition of gender not mattering is exactly right, and if the person doesn’t show up to correct the use of pronouns then who cares.
There is no “honour” to defend for a random unknown individual. It’s just for self validation or so that people who do such things feel like they belong to the “tribe” or whatever. Tribalism is the stupidest reason to use pronouns.
Did you even read my comment? I was saying that you said nothing about that second point in your original comment and that’s why people are going after you. Asking if pointing out people misgendering by accident is necessary is one question. Stating that pronouns don’t matter in an agressive matter is another