Share some activities you’ve been interested in doing but couldn’t do because you’re closeted.

Transmasc, Transfem, Nonbinary, and Gender Non-Conforming answers are all welcome and encouraged here.

  • Smorty [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    I currently have a similar thought proccesss to how you described yours.

    Transitioning feels like this super selfish thing, where many of my friends and family will just not accept it, and where I drag people more down than I help myself.

    Unfortunately I have not convinced myself to another point of view yet.

    • dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      6 days ago

      To be fair, I never convinced myself of the other view point, even now I think transitioning is “selfish” in a sense, it’s just that on the other side I can confirm it wasn’t like I thought it would be and that there was also something “selfish” about never taking care of myself and being a burden on others because of that.

    • MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz
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      6 days ago

      People who would get “dragged down” by someone they know transitioning are doing it to themselves. There is no logic in laying the blame on the person transitioning.

      It costs nothing to be kind and supportive to those around you, so I would consider those who won’t even do that, to be the selfish ones.

      If a person struggles with someone they know transitioning, good, because maybe that finally provokes the introspection in them, required to become a better person.

      If it doesn’t, I don’t know how to help them.

      But I know how to help you. Transitioning is not selfish. It’s life-saving.