Have you ever met a stranger that gave you advice that changed your life?

Have you lost a partner at a young age? Got a rare disease?

Decided to buy bitcoin on a whim in 2009?

Changed careers several times?

  • Dave@lemmy.nz
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    14 days ago

    If you think back a step, think about why some people are the way they are. Is it because of their genes? Because of a teacher or role model they had growing up? Because of the parenting methods or advice they got from those who raised them?

    People are who they’ve because of a number of factors that at their heart are all random.

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      14 days ago

      That would mean there’s no responsibility for anything. You raped someone? That’s just your genes/upbringing and not your fault! Murdered someone? Same!

      That’s a very dangerous way of thinking. You are responsible for your actions. Many things shaped you, but you do have a choice.

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        14 days ago

        It’s a philosophical argument, not directions for how to live your life!

        I think it works better for giving others the benefit of the doubt instead of blaming people who have made poor decisions for not “pulling themselves up by their bootstraps”. But you definitely should not try it in reverse, “I’m gonna go get addicted to drugs because it’s not my fault” 🫤