Do you have 90% meaningless dreams? Do you think 50% have deeper meaning?
0%
But they’re still very fun!
…except when they aren’t!
Mine are usually nightmares, sometimes with anatomically accurate gore, so they’re rarely fun at all.
Today I dream that I meet my wife in a sex shop called Peg that was run by a couple of lesbians. Not sure if is a sign, but is giving me courage.
Dreams are just a reflection of your past experiences, your memories, what you’ve been through.
My dreams are nothing like that. They are wacky and jump from scene to scene. I spend half my morning trying to figure them out. Of course I have a vivid imagination and it helps sometimes with my writing.
So you’re saying they’re 100 % significant. 😛
Yeah, processing the day in dreams is very helpful to me. I see things from a different perspective and can deal with life better
But I’ve never met Fiona apple and wanted to impress her. That was my dream last night
That wasn’t Fiona Apple but a past or present woman of your life.
Zero have meaning.
I don’t dream.
0% are significant, but some are fucking annoying, I’ll tell you that.
Less than 1%. I’ve had stress dreams about work and school, which is probably a sign that my life is out of balance.
I see stress dreams as part of the meaningful category. It makes me face just how stressed I am when I try to ignore my mental health for too long
From a biological perspective, your dreams are part of the process of moving short term memories from the hippocampus to the neocortex. This will involve perceiving symbolic representations of your experiences, feelings, memories, predictions, etc. As far as being “meaningful,” that’s relative to the implications you’re interested in. If you’re looking for meaning, look for the common psychological underpinnings of certain symbols (e.g. teeth falling out, not wearing pants, etc.) and see what that might expose about the things your brain is processing. Just remember that specific archetypes are often offered by people based on tradition and superstition; Make sure you’re looking at reliable sources, especially considering that your brain is going to process a lot more than people have worked out, and not every archetype is likely to carry information you find meaningful.
I’m going to say 0% because my dreams are fucked up and I hope they are meaningless.
Same.
Most recent dream was about a bog where snakes sat on sticks, waiting for someone to go by so they could swallow them whole. I woke up when a snake had its mouth over me and the inside looked like the inside of a sleeping bag.
If you say you can read meaning out of that you lie.
Maybe a few a year, so one percent.
100% of my dreams have about as much meaning as any other biological process.
Mine are 50/50! Sometimes I’ll have the most dull dreams that are so realistic I’ll wake up and not be able to tell if it really happened or it was just a dream e.g. I decided to buy avocados instead of broccoli at the supermarket. And then I’m like hmmm wait so are there avocados or broccoli in my kitchen now? Turns out there’s neither. Then I’ll have really impactful, emotional or fantastical dreams that leave me feeling a certain way. I do find it interesting whether it’s the boring dreams or the intense ones, that that is what was important for my brain to process that day
As someone going through trauma therapy stuff, every dream has some sort of significance to my life.
But it’s mostly about how the dreams make me feel vs any type of symbolism. I usually feel overwhelmed, stressed, terrified and like I’m failing my son. Which all matches with what I’m working on in therapy
EMDR?
We have a winner. Been really beneficial for me but also really hard
I’ve been waiting since March to start and I finally got a therapist who isn’t inept, so I’m starting my first “real” appointment next week.
Even just indirectly referencing my trauma gives me horrific nightmares for days, so I’m extremely nervous. But I just want my life to get better, so I’ll try anything at this point.
How long have you been doing it? Have you seen any improvement? I’m so sorry that it’s been difficult for you. Getting better is never easy, is it?
So, it depends how we’re counting. I don’t usually think of a dream again unless I’ve had it at least twice; so do we count recurring dreams as one dream or do we count every iteration of a recurring dream separately?
If the former, something like 10%; if the latter, something like 60%.
I think it’s up to you. My experience with repeated dreams is a lot like watching the same movie twice.
So like, you appreciate it more and notice details you missed the first time around?
Yeah, having the same dream twice helps me see the whole story and solidify the feeling it gives me.
Not meaningful, but can be impactful. First time I asked out a girl was because I dreamed about her, and suddenly had a crush. Definitely paved the way for me being able to ask out girls in the future
