Female human here. I’ve honestly always just read it literally, a person having sex second in a multiple partner scenario, and it being sloppy down there for all involved. There’s just as much guy in the statement as there is girl, doesn’t seem all that problematic to me.
I wasn’t equating women with anything, nor making any sort of generalization. If that’s what you saw in that, that’s on you.
“Sloppy seconds” in the context of sex is inherently sexist slutshaming regardless of whether you’re aware of it or not.
Female human here. I’ve honestly always just read it literally, a person having sex second in a multiple partner scenario, and it being sloppy down there for all involved. There’s just as much guy in the statement as there is girl, doesn’t seem all that problematic to me.
Second human woman here, I concur. I always just thought that term implied the…goopiness of the act itself in a humorous way
Goopiness is a great word.
Female humans on the internet?
Please don’t tell on me, I don’t want to go back to the bad place.
Reddit?
shhh, mention not the name of the bad place. it triggers.
Impossible. I call bullshit.