• kandoh@reddthat.com
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    7 hours ago

    No one wants to admit they want that stuff in a survey but those are always super popular

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    7 hours ago

    I mean, I played Firewatch. It’s part suspense and mystery but I felt there was a possible romance angle there that is hard to deny. You can make it platonic and straightforward but I remember feeling quite connected to the person on the other line.

    Then again, I’m twice the age of a “teen” so I don’t know if it fits.

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    7 hours ago

    I mean, maybe my friends are just weird, but I’m looking at the success of mass effect trilogy, BG3, the older dragon age games, etc and a huge talking point was always all the companions and possible avenues of romance and sex. That should never be the focus of the game, but it can be a substantial part of the overall experience and add a lot.

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    21 hours ago

    A romance story is good if’s not half-assed and a game doesn’t depend on it. 16-bit RPG’s did it well.

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    1 day ago

    Been saying this for a long time now. Romance in video games is about as batshit-cringy as it gets and is a tremendous waste of time that could have been used to add meaningful content or fix stability issues/bugs instead.

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        11 hours ago

        Mass Effect did it quite well (at least some of them like Tali), although with a touch of cringe

        And The Witcher obviously

        And of course some story games like Life Is Strange, but they’re character-focused so it makes sense

      • YarrMatey@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        18 hours ago

        I’ve played so many it is hard to have a favorite. I like when different games try to incorporate romance, but I still prefer visual novels. I have played so many where you are a guy romancing women (these usually are bad quality and an excuse to see sex, I am fine with sex but at least emphasize the romance) but have been getting into otome games where you are a woman romancing guys. There are still bad tropes in some of these games, like noncon (I only do consensual). There are also queer games like Dream Daddy I enjoyed.

        For non-VN I would say I liked Bioware’s games, Stardew Valley, Harvest Moon games, Story of Seasons games, Rune Factory games, Persona games, Divinity Original Sin 2, Baldurs Gate 3 (haven’t beaten yet, seems promising), Cyberpunk 2077 (Judy), Life is Strange, and Obsidian/Bethesda (sorta).

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          Nice to see a shout-out for DOS2. I liked that it leaned into its sex scenes when called for. Too many M-rated games are still afraid to go there with it. I also feel like it’s a bit more earned when it takes a while to develop, or as is often the case, the setting is so oppressive that it puts romance firmly in the background. Mass Effect 3 was great about this.

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    1 day ago

    I really enjoyed my Shepard and Liara romance during the Mass Effect trilogy, but I don’t think it’s particularly well executed in most other games.

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    1 day ago

    I as a video game enthusiast do not want my character to experience romance. It doesn’t happen in real life the way it is portrayed in media, and it’s fucking boring seeing it over and fucking over again. Gimme tragedy, gimme a problem I can solve, a mystery, or a war to fight. But romance, and sex, have not a damn place in those things. Developers of apparently every damn media have gotten it drilled into their heads that we want to read, watch, play thru, and otherwise experience their mental masturbation. Well I for one, don’t fucking want to experience it at all. Gimme a story, and if you can’t do it without pointless sex scenes then you don’t have a fuckin story, you have a story about fuckin.

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        21 hours ago

        Well this is funny sex humor

        Not romance

        This is the same thing TV shows figured out ages ago: you give people a flirty relationship and it’s generally fun to watch. You turn that flirting into an actual relationship and it’s boring + usually some fan service where the authors of the show try to get their female coworkers as naked as they can be manipulated into getting. And then they always need to make that same female coworker get pregnant and force her to fake giving birth.

        Tldr it doesn’t matter what the fans want, authors are fucking pervs.

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      I dunno. problems, mysteries, and war aren’t usually portrayed realistically in video games, either.

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    1 day ago

    that’s only true because most of you motherfuckers do robotic gamified romances that don’t feel natural, heartfelt or interesting.

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    1 day ago

    Romance in video games is fun, yeah, but it’s usually just something extra. It’s rarely the main focus and I’m hard-pressed to really imagine how to make it the main focus without making a gooner game. Usually romance/sex is sort of the cherry on top of an otherwise good game.

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    1 day ago

    SIGNALIS is a game about romance and I loved it, it is one of my favorite relatively recently released games.

    Maybe you’re doing it wrong?

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      21 hours ago

      Hades was also HUGE and I find it hard to believe it was mainly for the gameplay as even I, a gameplay purist, have always been drawn in by Supergiant’s storytelling.

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      The romance was the worst part of BG3, imo.

      Too forced, every dialogue option is either slightly flirty (at least) or just telling them “fuck you and die”.

      Even when you say you just want friendship and avoid the most flirty options, it won’t stop the game from trying to throw you in a romance. I hated that.

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        Yep. It did depend on the companion a bit, IIRC Shadowheart and Astarion’s romances wouldn’t be triggered unless the PC picked the flirty dialogue. But then there were some companions who would pursue the player. I hated how I couldn’t just be Gale’s Bro, and Halsin is just plain creepy.

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          Gale has a problem where he interprets interest in his backstory as romantic interest. Which is kind of realistic, but no one wants to be on the receiving end of that in real life or in a game.

          Like bro, put your dick away and tell me some gossip about Mystra.

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            14 hours ago

            Maybe it was deliberate and intended to give some self awareness to some people who won’t take no for an answer and keep trying.

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        11 hours ago

        I completely avoided all of the romance and loved the game because it’s a fantastic game.

        I think it’s cool that it’s there for people that enjoy it though.

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          11 hours ago

          I don’t hate games that have it- though I do wonder what better content there would be if the developers didn’t focus on all the mechanics and coding involved in making it work.