• 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.social
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    I really just play video games, and the game I was best at was Rocket League. When I played, I was in the top rank and would regularly end up in matches with actual pros. I wanted to try going to RLCS, but I could never find teammates to sign up with.

    But I also have 100% achievements in all 3 dark souls and elden ring, while currently going for Bloodborne’s. Sekiro I haven’t even beaten yet… Gonna have to cheese Owl.

  • Hemingways_Shotgun@lemmy.ca
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    Depends on the hobby. I tend to collect hobbies and then grow bored of them, then return to them a while later.

    I’ll become absolutely obsessed with learning about “hobby x”, and spend two months basically getting as close to an expert on it as I can with self-teaching. (Video Editing, filmmaking, screenwriting, 3D modelling for flight simulators, Graphic Design, etc…)

    Then I’ll grow bored and move onto a new obsession from the above list, focus on that long enough that at least 25% of my knowledge of the previous obsession vanishes and I have to relearn a bunch the next time that obsession rolls around.

    I’ve been told that’s possibly ADHD, but since I suffer from depression I’ll take my bursts of obsessiveness over lack of any motivation any day.

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      This is me!!! Especially the relearning part 😆 Side bonus is I’m really good at reading docs(programming) now!

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    I am an aggressively mediocre singer but the 2 hour rehearsal on Monday is the highlight of my week. It’s so fucking fun man!

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    3 days ago

    I think it is a trap to think about it this way. My hobbies are meant to bring me joy and challenge, no matter what level i am on

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    Unless it’s programming or sysadmin, I’m mediocre at all my hobbies, but I enjoy them a lot. It’s great not feeling pressured to do them professionally like a paid job.

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      Nice to get that balance and leave the deadlines and stress back at the desk. Good on ya. I don’t even care what your hobbies are – you advertise the right attitude towards them. Keep it up.

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      I don’t think that’s universally true, I agree with some other posters here that a big part of enjoying a hobby is the learning process and getting better at it.

      Yes, excessive comparison to others and worries about performance and the like are killers for enjoyment, but the pursuit of skill is a major part of a fulfilling hobby for me.

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    Awful! But the fun is having something i don’t need to be good at. Though i now have a lot of things i’m at least mediocre at, those are just old hobbies.

    I usually learn my hobbies at small fraction of the rate i would have learned something in school. Years instead of weeks/months. I learn them deeper this way and don’t develop burnout.

  • 🎨 Elaine Cortez 🇨🇦 @lemm.ee
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    • Creating games: Good enough that my IT teacher was impressed enough that he recommended that I go into the game industry

    • Drawing: Good enough that I’ve got hundreds of followers and a lot of people like my art

    • Games: I can beat the original Pikmin in 7 in-game days and I also beat Mushihimesama Futari’s final boss on Ultra Mode.

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    Type 2 fun and overthinking. I am good at enjoying both.

    Bouldering: I enjoy it, even though I’m not great at it. My short wingspan doesn’t help, and neither does my fear of heights. Every climb is a mix of determination and second-guessing my life choices and I’m excellent at the latest.

    Gardening: It sounds relaxing, but in reality, it’s a cycle of overthinking. First, I stress about planting. Then I wait. And once/if it grows, there’s a whole lineup of threats: slugs, cats, deer, boars, hail… basically, everything conspiring against success. Not sure what I enjoy about it but I’d say I am moderately successful and can eat a self planted potato every year