• Chetzemoka@startrek.website
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    1 year ago

    I miss having a mask on all day at work because now I have to make an effort to hide my sarcastic faces again

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    1 year ago

    That never happens to me because I’m too autistic to be aware of my own facial expressions. I didn’t even realize until a friend I made at 20 or 21 told me I could go into theater because I was so expressive with my face. That gave me a bit of a mini existential crisis. My face has been loudly communicating things to everyone all this time without my knowledge or consent? Wtf

    • Mossy Feathers (She/They)@pawb.social
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      I’m kinda like this, but I swing from being very readable, to having a poker face that even a professional poker player wouldn’t be able to crack. It’s not at all voluntary and seems to depend on the environment. If I’m super focused on something, I end up with a poker face frozen in a particular expression. It also seems like my face isn’t readable when I’m uncomfortable or annoyed (or maybe people can read it but don’t give a fuck about how they’re making me feel), but otherwise my face tends to be very readable.

    • Marxism-Fennekinism@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      I accidentally full on speak my intetnal conversations out loud sometimes. Usually they make zero sense unless you’re me. Obviously I try my best to not do that in public, and it’s almost always just a whisper, but I wonder how many strangers have thought I’m weird as hell.

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      Yeah, this is super common for me “Sorry, I didn’t mean to express my actual reaction to what you just said to me” lol

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    1 year ago

    I get the joke, but no.

    I try not to be that oppressed.

    How do I do it?

    I dont turn the cam on at the work meeting.

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    1 year ago

    I have no idea what my face is doing most of the time, who cares.

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    1 year ago

    Usually the moment after greeting a passerby with a faked smile, my face goes straight to depressed sour-lemon mode, which I then quickly straighten up to a less worrying expression. Just in case other people pass by. Don’t want to ruin anyone’s day.

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    1 year ago

    I get called out by one friend often. It disgust me that people can’t express their emotions facially without ridicule

    I am such a fan (recently) of the charismatic voice because she makes Disney characters seem subdued.